Definition to Success

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 “Success is not a Destination, Success is a Definition”.  The reason so many people feel like failures is not just from a lack of results or the missing of set goals.  The biggest culprit is not knowing what Success means to them. There is no such thing as a public standard to measure success with because it’s not a title, rank, position or income destination, it is a personalized definition based on your own standards.  What success means to me may not mean to you.  For me sticking with my health and exercise program warrants total success in my mind and heart.

I would encourage you to take some time out and create your own definition of Success.  What does it really mean to you?  The worst place to measure Success is from other people and what they are doing.  Success can only be measured by what it means to you, the value and the meaning you place on it.  Once you come to terms of what success means to you write down in big letters “This Is What Success Means To Me…(Your Name)”! and then below it write out your definition.  The great thing about this is you can and will change it throughout your life time.

When I was ten years old Success meant throwing a fast ball batters could not hit.  On my 55th birthday my adult kids talked me into throwing a fast ball at Knott’s Berry Farm which almost sent me to the hospital in an ambulance.  It felt like my shoulder broke in two.

I promise you my definition of success is no longer throwing fast balls!

For millions of people earning a million dollars a year seems like a lot of money, but if Bill Gates only made a million dollars a year he would be asking his wife to sign them up for food stamps.  You cannot make Success a destination you can only make it your definition.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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Significant Success

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You will never have significant success in anything until it becomes an obsession with you. An obsession is something that consumes your thoughts, time and actions. You can also refer this as “Passion”.  When you have “Passion” you do not need things or people to motivate you, inspire you, push you or light your fire.  Passion is like a burning inferno that moves you into massive action that knows no such thing as defeat, discouragement, disappointment, despair or double mindedness.  Passion eliminates fear and doubt as well as procrastination.

The reason so many people walk around dead, uninspired, unmotivated, discouraged, defeated and lethargic lives is because they are not passionate about what they are doing.  Until you become passionate about financial freedom you will always struggle with lack and shortage, until you get passion for getting better and doing better you will stay at your current level and never progress forward.  Many people mistake excitement with passion.  Excitement is like a vapor of alcohol that catches fire and makes a bright flame but soon goes out and disappears as the alcohol evaporates.

Passion is like the internal lava of a volcano a perpetual mass of burning energy. In business, once your passion goes down so does your business and income.  And unless you keep the fires of passion burning and alive your dreams, business and income will go out!  Never leave the responsibility of your passion in the hands of another.  The fact is nobody can flame the fires of passion in our heart except us

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

 

“It Feels Good To Own Gold”!

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I am here to tell you “It Feels Good To Own Gold”!

Can anyone tell me how in the world we are already at the latter end of 2014? It was just 2012 yesterday…right?  Wow, how time just flies by and that is why the most successful people in the world protect, guard, manage and maximize their time.  They live everyday to squeeze the most “juice” out of each day.  Life is about living, and living on your terms whatever those terms mean to you.  Do you know why most people are not living their dreams…don’t answer that because I will tell you.  “They cannot afford to at this present moment”.  When we come to think about it, it is a sad thing to have so much available to us, so much to have and enjoy and the only thing that keeps us away from those good things is “Money” or more precisely put the “lack of money”.

Now here is the fact, “There is No Shortage of Wealth or Money in the World”.  Wealth does not go away it simply exchanges hands, from person to person, from Generation to Generation.  Think about all the wealthy icons, how much money do you think Henry Ford made in his life time?  Did he get to take one dime of all those millions of dollars he made in his life time? Nope, but his wealth is still here on earth with his family still working.

If there is no shortage of wealth on the earth than why are most people broke.  Why don’t they have their fare share of money to live their dreams? It is due to their personal choice of things.

You get to choose to practice what broke people do and continue to stay broke and struggling or you get to choose to practice what rich people do and create financial freedom.

Rich people spend less than they earn, put some of what they save into superior currency of Gold bullion and increase their earning capacity.

Broke people spend every dime they earn plus money they don’t have on credit cards, don’t have a dime in savings, and search their closets like a pirate seeking treasures to find any gold jewelry they can so that they can go and sell it!

You are on one of these two plans and whatever plan you are on explains your present conditions and predicts your future outcome.  Ask yourself today what plan you are on, it’s a sobering question. Do yourself a great favor and read the book “The Richest Man in Babylon”.

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer 

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Time Factor

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“Time” is the great factor which decides financial freedom or financial struggle in our future. Time is broken down for the most part in centuries, years, months, weeks, days, hours, minutes and seconds. It is what we do in (or fail to do) in the small increments of time like days that is the great determination wealth factor in our life.  The strange thing is, this dynamic of time goes unnoticed, undetected, and silent but holds the power to change generations and world affairs.

“Time” becomes our greatest allay or our most deadly enemy. How we apply and manage time determines our fate in every aspect of our life. “Time” is working to build our wealth or working to destroy our money.  For example in 1932 $100,000 in US dollars (paper currency) is now worth $2,000.00 in 2014.  Time eroded its purchasing power and strength.  $100,000 in Gold in 1932 is worth over 4 Million dollars toady in 2014. Time worked to increase and multiply the purchasing power and strength in Gold currency.

Many people thought (and speculated) that the way I was able to build our publishing, speaking, and Mentoring and film companies were through skill and hard work, however that was not the Secret although we do work hard and hone our skills daily.  My secret has been that I “Listened to those who had what I wanted and followed their actions”.  A very simple plan that anyone could follow.  I am amazed at how so many people work so very hard to create financial stability in their life yet refuse to listen to the very people who have not only financial stability but financial freedom.

If you truly want to become wealthy and financially free in life, watch this teaching by Bestselling Author of the book series Rich Dad Poor Dad and Mega Multi-Millionaire “Robert Kiyosaki”

Don and Melinda Boyer

www.DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold”

 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Building Your Business

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Why do people give up and quit in business?  Building your business and marketing are not normally fun and pleasant things to do.  It is like going on a journey through a hot desert in search for an Oasis but enduring the beating sun, hot sand and a camel that has bad breath and passes gas along the way combined with the “feeling” you will never find water is many times to unbearable and people simply give up!  Working on your business and marketing is like going to the dentist.  For me, oral hygiene is extremely important so I visit my dentist often for regular check-up’s and deep cleaning about every three months.  Even on these routine check up’s and cleanings I have to stop a block from my dentist, get out of the car and walk around the block giving myself a “courage talk”.

It takes every ounce of mental discipline not to go into a full panic attack when I walk into the dentist office and smell the aroma of “Needles”. However, I push through all that unpleasant feeling because having a “Million Dollar Smile” is really important to me.

I have found over the years most audiences want their speakers to have all their teeth in their head. My thoughts, hey what’s a few missing teeth among friends? But most event planners don’t appreciate the humor in that! (lol).

As you go about building your business in the pursuit of your Financial Dreams the Journey will at times be long, the camel you ride will be foul and obnoxious and when it seems like you will never find your “Oasis” Don’t Give Up…Water will be found, the Gold is out there, your desired Treasure is waiting for you.  Hang on, it is worth it!

Don and Melinda Boyer

DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Daily Success – Reinvent Yourself

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This week I am going to write from a perspective and format I have never done before but feel extremely lead to do so. It will be in story form of my personal experience in the marketplace for the past 9 years and has to do with a new law that came into effect on July 1, 2014.

On July 1st of this year, H.R. Bill #2847 went into effect. It could ultimately lead to some of the most dramatic changes to America in more than 50 years–affecting your investments, your retirement, your savings, and more.

January 1, 2008 I woke up in an Embassy Suite hotel room in Albuquerque New Mexico about 6:00 a.m. and as soon as my eyes opened I could “Feel” something was drastically wrong but I had no idea what it was.  There are not too many days I could recall and tell you where I was or what I was doing but that day sticks out as though it happened yesterday.

Let me back up to help you understand the impact of that day.  In 2004 I launched our Power of Mentorship seminars that lead to the Book series and movies.  Throughout 2004, 2005, 2006 everything I touched turned into absolute Gold.  Our companies were making an unbelievable amount of money and I was attracting the most prominent professional leaders to work on and in all my projects.  The top of the pinnacle was 2007 when we released our first movie and 2007 created so much money and profits it was almost scary.  One month we casually calculated how much we spent that month on eating out and treating friends and it was Seven Thousand Dollars!

I guess we had friends that could drink like a fish and run up those alcohol tabs to the limit even though Melinda and I don’t drink ourselves.  I remember one night at dinner in Las Vegas with about 8 people that included Marie Diamond (from the Secret) taking a limo from a hotel to where we ate was a 5 minute ride that cost $175.00 and then we sat down to have finger food and the freaking bill was over $700.00!

December 6, 2007 was our Red Carpet Event and what an event it was.  After the Red Carpet event Melinda and I and two of our close friends decided to take that last two weeks in December and fly to New Mexico to vacation and shop till we dropped.  Up to that point for the past 3 years everything I touched would instantly turn into hundreds of thousands of dollars in profits and cash flow, so life was good and I now had three years of accustoming to that.

We had a great time in New Mexico and laughed the 2008 New Year in end getting to bed late (but sober).  Nothing was wrong so when I went to bed that night (actually early morning) I was happy and content as always.  However, when I woke up at six in the morning I instantly knew “Something Was Wrong”.   What I am sharing this week (a little each day) about what went wrong in 2008 will have a drastic impact on your life, business and income.

Make sure you do not miss one day this week, by Friday you will not look at your life and business the same…I Guarantee it!

Don and Melinda Boyer

DonBoyerAuthor.com

 

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

The Power of Respect

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What is the bonding cement of all successful relationships be they personal, business or professional? “Respect” Once respect is gone the relationship is dead, it’s like trying to hold up a body without a skeletal frame work. No amount of denial, fake laughter or words of “forgiveness’ will heal or mend the wound. Unfortunately once respect is lost it’s almost impossible to regain.  Many people think they lose respect for someone because they get angry or upset with them, but anger does not mean the loss of respect. A relationship can bounce back from anger, disagreements and even arguments, but if you detour into a loss of respect it is usually over.

The best way I have found to deal with relationships that have gone into disrespect is simply to forgive and end them.  To try and “forgive” and continue with the relationship only causes the disrespect to continue and cause “emotional infection”.  Because we are human we are going to do things that will cause people to lose respect for us, and people will do things that will cause us to lose respect for them.  That is simply a part of life.

You never want to lose respect for anyone, however when it does occur in business you can live, survive and continue to thrive.  But never allow yourself to lose respect for your spouse or family.  Let love reign supreme so that no matter what occurs you never lose respect in that arena of your life.

If you have lost respect for something or someone forgive it, bury it and move on to healing and restoration. Never under estimate the power of “Respect’.  It will build or destroy fortunes.  Here is the interesting thing, many times losing respect for someone is due to our own personal hang ups and someone losing respect for us was a byproduct of their own problems.

The answer I have found is to do your very best in everything you do and that way no matter how the chips fall you can walk with your head held high.  If you do that, you can live and operate in peace when the element of “Respect” fly’s out the window.

If you Respect your financial future, do yourself a favor and turn some of your paper money each week into superior Gold money.  Nothing feels better than saving and having that Gold stuff in your bank.  When  you look at your Gold you will know that you own that money, the rest of the money you earned is gone to the creditors, stores, merchants and a host of others things that you gave your money too.

Don and Melinda Boyer

www.DonBoyerAuthor.com

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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