Definition to Success

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 “Success is not a Destination, Success is a Definition”.  The reason so many people feel like failures is not just from a lack of results or the missing of set goals.  The biggest culprit is not knowing what Success means to them. There is no such thing as a public standard to measure success with because it’s not a title, rank, position or income destination, it is a personalized definition based on your own standards.  What success means to me may not mean to you.  For me sticking with my health and exercise program warrants total success in my mind and heart.

I would encourage you to take some time out and create your own definition of Success.  What does it really mean to you?  The worst place to measure Success is from other people and what they are doing.  Success can only be measured by what it means to you, the value and the meaning you place on it.  Once you come to terms of what success means to you write down in big letters “This Is What Success Means To Me…(Your Name)”! and then below it write out your definition.  The great thing about this is you can and will change it throughout your life time.

When I was ten years old Success meant throwing a fast ball batters could not hit.  On my 55th birthday my adult kids talked me into throwing a fast ball at Knott’s Berry Farm which almost sent me to the hospital in an ambulance.  It felt like my shoulder broke in two.

I promise you my definition of success is no longer throwing fast balls!

For millions of people earning a million dollars a year seems like a lot of money, but if Bill Gates only made a million dollars a year he would be asking his wife to sign them up for food stamps.  You cannot make Success a destination you can only make it your definition.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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Significant Success

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You will never have significant success in anything until it becomes an obsession with you. An obsession is something that consumes your thoughts, time and actions. You can also refer this as “Passion”.  When you have “Passion” you do not need things or people to motivate you, inspire you, push you or light your fire.  Passion is like a burning inferno that moves you into massive action that knows no such thing as defeat, discouragement, disappointment, despair or double mindedness.  Passion eliminates fear and doubt as well as procrastination.

The reason so many people walk around dead, uninspired, unmotivated, discouraged, defeated and lethargic lives is because they are not passionate about what they are doing.  Until you become passionate about financial freedom you will always struggle with lack and shortage, until you get passion for getting better and doing better you will stay at your current level and never progress forward.  Many people mistake excitement with passion.  Excitement is like a vapor of alcohol that catches fire and makes a bright flame but soon goes out and disappears as the alcohol evaporates.

Passion is like the internal lava of a volcano a perpetual mass of burning energy. In business, once your passion goes down so does your business and income.  And unless you keep the fires of passion burning and alive your dreams, business and income will go out!  Never leave the responsibility of your passion in the hands of another.  The fact is nobody can flame the fires of passion in our heart except us

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

 

“It Feels Good To Own Gold”!

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I am here to tell you “It Feels Good To Own Gold”!

Can anyone tell me how in the world we are already at the latter end of 2014? It was just 2012 yesterday…right?  Wow, how time just flies by and that is why the most successful people in the world protect, guard, manage and maximize their time.  They live everyday to squeeze the most “juice” out of each day.  Life is about living, and living on your terms whatever those terms mean to you.  Do you know why most people are not living their dreams…don’t answer that because I will tell you.  “They cannot afford to at this present moment”.  When we come to think about it, it is a sad thing to have so much available to us, so much to have and enjoy and the only thing that keeps us away from those good things is “Money” or more precisely put the “lack of money”.

Now here is the fact, “There is No Shortage of Wealth or Money in the World”.  Wealth does not go away it simply exchanges hands, from person to person, from Generation to Generation.  Think about all the wealthy icons, how much money do you think Henry Ford made in his life time?  Did he get to take one dime of all those millions of dollars he made in his life time? Nope, but his wealth is still here on earth with his family still working.

If there is no shortage of wealth on the earth than why are most people broke.  Why don’t they have their fare share of money to live their dreams? It is due to their personal choice of things.

You get to choose to practice what broke people do and continue to stay broke and struggling or you get to choose to practice what rich people do and create financial freedom.

Rich people spend less than they earn, put some of what they save into superior currency of Gold bullion and increase their earning capacity.

Broke people spend every dime they earn plus money they don’t have on credit cards, don’t have a dime in savings, and search their closets like a pirate seeking treasures to find any gold jewelry they can so that they can go and sell it!

You are on one of these two plans and whatever plan you are on explains your present conditions and predicts your future outcome.  Ask yourself today what plan you are on, it’s a sobering question. Do yourself a great favor and read the book “The Richest Man in Babylon”.

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer 

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Strike Gold”

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“Strike Gold”  Millions of people flood into Las Vegas and hit the gambling tables and slot machines with high hopes and intentions of “Striking Gold”.  It is a sad and pathetic system that lures the ignorant into more financial misery, debt and hopelessness. Those that take that route, I don’t blame (not approve) them for trying to drink the pain away.  However, there is a much better and easier way to “Strike Gold” and that is to acquire it one gram at a time.

I have been acquiring Gold since 1980 and the joy and thrill of getting another piece of Gold is unlike any other feeling you can imagine.  To see your wealth grow one Gold gram at a time is exciting, rewarding and most of all profitable.  I am still amazed to watch how Wealthy people amass their fortune, and how financially challenged people blow their money.

Wealthy people are those who build their assets…then build their lifestyle.  I encourage people every day to earn as much money as you can in the field of your choice only take a little of that money and save it in Gold.  If you got on a saving plan of just getting Gold one gram at a time (about $65.00) you could save your way to a financial fortune.

Gold in your bank feels a lot better than having nothing in your bank.  Don’t wait for things to improve, make the improvements now by acquiring some Gold.  I assure you in the very near future you will be glad you did.

“Strike Gold” it’s in your power…one gram at a time.

Don and Melinda Boyer

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Learn to Organize

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Learning how to organize, focus, persist and delegate are extremely important attributes to have in order to reach your full potential.  I was talking to my good friend and master entrepreneur Joseph Botelho about success and we both agreed that success is important but the aim in life is to create “Significance”.  Significance entails everything you would find in success like wealth, achievement, awards, fame, recognition, dreams and power but adds these 3 elements to it:

  1. What are you going to leave behind that will continue to better your family and humanity after you are gone?  Will people remember your name 50 years after you are gone?  Shoot most people are forgotten 50 days after they kick the bucket.  This is why I think everyone should be a published author.  We still read books that are over 100 years old today keeping that persons message and memory alive and their message continues to bless generations.
  2. Is what you do making a positive impact on people?  Are you making the lives of people better with what you bring to the marketplace?
  3. Love is the greatest force on earth.  I wish I could honesty say or describe what true love is or how it works, but I can’t.  What I can tell you is that we can see it and recognize it when it appears in our life from another human being.  It comes through the eyes, words, touch, compassion, forgiveness, empathy, caring, giving and acting. Love is much too powerful to contain in words, it has to be expressed in action.  What teen age boy has not told his girl friend “If you love me you will have my baby” That is not love, that is growing out of control hormones in full swing!

I encourage you to take a look at your life and revamp it not just to attain success but take it one step higher to “Significance”.

Don and Melinda Boyer

www.DonBoyerAuthor.com 

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

 “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

RELAX!!

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Why not try mixing “prayer” to your daily routine, you may find that is does wonders in combating stress, anxiety and fear.  A simple prayer of “Gratitude” goes a long way in bringing about peace in our heart and life.  As we all seek to do more, gain more and be more, the overload of this type of lifestyle can take its toll on our lives.  I shared with you a few weeks back how I woke up one day and realized I lost my “Peace”.  I was in such a mode of work and passion overload that life had to have one of my front teeth fall right out of my head in order for me to wake up and slow down.

When you are a professional speaker it is a heck of a thing to smile and look like a boxer who lost the fight!

It was a “Fire Alarm” that got my attention.  Since then my peace has been restored (and my tooth too!) and Melinda and I make it a early morning habit before we do anything else to spend a little time in prayer and being thankful for our life and all the good things we are blessed with. We also say a prayer for you and over you that you would receive every blessing in life God has for you.

Many times the best way to speed up is to slow down!  Take some time out from your stressful and busy day and just be good to yourself. Go get a foot massage, take in an afternoon movie, sleep in for once and enjoy life.  Remember Prosperity without Peace is no prosperity at all.

Need more money?  Try giving some away.  To the natural mind that sounds like insanity yet it is a Universal Law that works. You plant a seed you reap a harvest.  No one thinks a farmer is crazy because he uses this system.  Over the past 34 years I have given my way out of financial jams into financial abundance on many occasions.  In fact in 2004 I wrote a book about it where I highlight some of the wealthiest men on the earth like J.C. Penny, and John D. Rockefeller, and many others who went from broke to wealth using this system of giving.  It worked for them, it’s worked for me, and it work for you too.

Don and Melinda Boyer

DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Building Your Business

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Why do people give up and quit in business?  Building your business and marketing are not normally fun and pleasant things to do.  It is like going on a journey through a hot desert in search for an Oasis but enduring the beating sun, hot sand and a camel that has bad breath and passes gas along the way combined with the “feeling” you will never find water is many times to unbearable and people simply give up!  Working on your business and marketing is like going to the dentist.  For me, oral hygiene is extremely important so I visit my dentist often for regular check-up’s and deep cleaning about every three months.  Even on these routine check up’s and cleanings I have to stop a block from my dentist, get out of the car and walk around the block giving myself a “courage talk”.

It takes every ounce of mental discipline not to go into a full panic attack when I walk into the dentist office and smell the aroma of “Needles”. However, I push through all that unpleasant feeling because having a “Million Dollar Smile” is really important to me.

I have found over the years most audiences want their speakers to have all their teeth in their head. My thoughts, hey what’s a few missing teeth among friends? But most event planners don’t appreciate the humor in that! (lol).

As you go about building your business in the pursuit of your Financial Dreams the Journey will at times be long, the camel you ride will be foul and obnoxious and when it seems like you will never find your “Oasis” Don’t Give Up…Water will be found, the Gold is out there, your desired Treasure is waiting for you.  Hang on, it is worth it!

Don and Melinda Boyer

DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”