Definition to Success

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 “Success is not a Destination, Success is a Definition”.  The reason so many people feel like failures is not just from a lack of results or the missing of set goals.  The biggest culprit is not knowing what Success means to them. There is no such thing as a public standard to measure success with because it’s not a title, rank, position or income destination, it is a personalized definition based on your own standards.  What success means to me may not mean to you.  For me sticking with my health and exercise program warrants total success in my mind and heart.

I would encourage you to take some time out and create your own definition of Success.  What does it really mean to you?  The worst place to measure Success is from other people and what they are doing.  Success can only be measured by what it means to you, the value and the meaning you place on it.  Once you come to terms of what success means to you write down in big letters “This Is What Success Means To Me…(Your Name)”! and then below it write out your definition.  The great thing about this is you can and will change it throughout your life time.

When I was ten years old Success meant throwing a fast ball batters could not hit.  On my 55th birthday my adult kids talked me into throwing a fast ball at Knott’s Berry Farm which almost sent me to the hospital in an ambulance.  It felt like my shoulder broke in two.

I promise you my definition of success is no longer throwing fast balls!

For millions of people earning a million dollars a year seems like a lot of money, but if Bill Gates only made a million dollars a year he would be asking his wife to sign them up for food stamps.  You cannot make Success a destination you can only make it your definition.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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Significant Success

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You will never have significant success in anything until it becomes an obsession with you. An obsession is something that consumes your thoughts, time and actions. You can also refer this as “Passion”.  When you have “Passion” you do not need things or people to motivate you, inspire you, push you or light your fire.  Passion is like a burning inferno that moves you into massive action that knows no such thing as defeat, discouragement, disappointment, despair or double mindedness.  Passion eliminates fear and doubt as well as procrastination.

The reason so many people walk around dead, uninspired, unmotivated, discouraged, defeated and lethargic lives is because they are not passionate about what they are doing.  Until you become passionate about financial freedom you will always struggle with lack and shortage, until you get passion for getting better and doing better you will stay at your current level and never progress forward.  Many people mistake excitement with passion.  Excitement is like a vapor of alcohol that catches fire and makes a bright flame but soon goes out and disappears as the alcohol evaporates.

Passion is like the internal lava of a volcano a perpetual mass of burning energy. In business, once your passion goes down so does your business and income.  And unless you keep the fires of passion burning and alive your dreams, business and income will go out!  Never leave the responsibility of your passion in the hands of another.  The fact is nobody can flame the fires of passion in our heart except us

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

 

Your Life Matters!

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Your Life Matters! It matters to people and it matters to God. Your life is important, never forget that or ever let anyone or anything tell you different.

If you are not being talked about, gossiped about, criticized, lied about and blocked from peoples Facebook “You Are Not Succeeding Enough”.  Nothing boils the blood of “Losers” more than your “Success”.  Jesus did nothing but good to everyone but He was accused of being a drunk, devil and hanging out with prostitutes. Remember “Criticism” is nothing more than the “Death Gargle of an Underachiever”. 

Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back or those who hate you because you are improving your life and succeeding.  Never exhort to trying to defend yourself orProve Your Innocence”.  Your time and energy is far too valuable to waste it on losers.  The truth of the matter all those who hate you, are bitter towards you and talk about you are so full of anger and bitterness lie awake in bed with insomnia, have that hatred burn an ulcer in their stomach so bad it gives them a bloody stool…all because they hate your success!

I know people who have dropped dead with disease and some right now with cancer because they had and have so much bitterness towards my success in life.  Never pay the high price of bitterness and hatred; it will put you in the grave.

I never offer a defense when I am attacked because my enemies won’t believe it and my true friends don’t need it.  If you are a professional with integrity, and have to prove your innocence to a so called friend…they are not your friend.

Success comes with lots of benefits and the luxury of financial freedom but you do have to learn how to duck and dodge tomatoes.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Ignoring People”

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Never use “Ignoring People” as a way to say no to their request or offer. This will build you a reputation of being low class, non professional and a flake.  Now none of these may be true of you but those labels will stick on you like super glue to ceramic if you “Ignore” peoples calls texts, and or emails because you don’t know how to tactfully say “No Thank”.  You have every right to say yes or no to whatever anyone asks of you but in the world of business and life you must learn the “Art and Skill” of knowing when and how to say no.

The easiest way and most used way to say no by non professionals is too “Ignore” the follow up from people.  But professionals use the skill of saying no thank you that not only strengthens the relationship but takes it to the next level of increase for both parties.  This is just one skill we teach all our Mentorship Students.  Once you get the reputation that you respond to every follow up request you will never have to worry about customers or clients, business or income because you will have more than you can use for the rest of your life.

Professionals always say “Yes” even when their response or reply is “No Thank You”.

If you are ever going to “Ignore People” the professional way to do it is contact that person and thank them for being part of your network but due to current conditions you are now deleting them from your circle.  The good news is, if you are a Professional before you ever have to come to that state they will have already dropped you, deleted you and took you off of their Facebook page.  We get lots of people who we know de-friend us off their facebook due to our posts. 100% of them are broke, bitter, and angry and can’t deal with all this success talk.

Never get so low in life that it makes you bitter toward people.  We all struggle with the issues of life, we all have challenges but we can choose to be “Bitter” or choose to get “Better”.

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Create Big Dreams

White fluffy clouds in the blue skyMake your Dreams so Big you don’t have time for Drama.  Make them so magnificent that you don’t have time to get “Distracted”. Make them so personal and desirable that you don’t have room to get “Discouraged”. Create Big Dreams and then…set small goals?  Hugh? What?  Did Don get affected by the Blood Moons did he grow a hump on his back, hair on his butt and lose his marbles too?  No, no, no.  The reason most people give up on their dreams before they achieve them is because they set their goals the exact same size of their dreams.

Your Dream is your desired destination and your goals are the steps that get you there.  If your goals are too high you will not be able to reach them and it will halt your entire Journey and you will abandon your dreams.  Yes create a big Dream then go about every day setting doable, reasonable and achievable daily goals.  The way we reach our dreams is to keep moving towards them and never stop.  Like A.L. Williams was famous for saying “All you can do is all you can do but all you can do is Enough”! 

This is why our Gold saving plan is so effective, you set a goal to become financially free and you start that journey by simply saving a Gram of Gold per week about $62.00 USD.  People want to wait to start saving or getting Gold when they can afford it, but unfortunately that day never comes so you have to create it.

Go out and conquer the world just go and do it one day at a time!

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Success is the Harvest

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Sometimes we have to put money down in order for our income to go up! Never be afraid to invest in yourself, knowledge, education and business.  You are your best investment.  We spend thousands of dollars a year on books, programs, audios, home study courses, seminars and events so that we can be the best we can be so that we can serve you the best that we can.  I am always amazed how people are afraid to invest a few hundred dollars to go to a week end event to improve their life and business but have no problem spending a few hundred dollars a month on food and social drinks.

Success is the harvest of the time, energy, sacrifice and money we have invested in our lives to grow and expand personally as well as professionally. There have been many times that we have found out about an upcoming seminar and training event and cleared our entire calendar to attended that event.  As we move forward in our journey if we keep in the forefront of our mind that in order to reap much we must invest much to become a person and professional of excellence and quality.

Life will always have its up’s and down’s but that does not require us to ride that roller coaster of life.  We can grow to the point and place in life that we ride the waves of life like a professional and skillful surfer in the open ocean.  When it comes to life, live it like a”Professional”.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Problems We Solve”

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We are known and remembered by the “Problems We Solve” or the “Problems We Create”.

The marketplace is very attracted to those who solve problems and will in fact pay high fees depending on the importance of the problems you solve. This is why I counsel business owners and professionals never “frustrate your customers and clients” but always seek to make your business culture one that is easy and user friendly.  We welcome problem solvers with open arms and appreciate their contribution to our life, but when we encounter a “problem creator” we want to run to the rest room and throw up!

There are some people no matter what, they always have problems, create problems and are a major problem.  The sad fact is, they don’t want their problems solved they just enjoy causing problems.  These people are extremely toxic and addicting and difficult to rid your business and life from, that is what makes them so dangerous.  It’s ok to be a “walking problem” when we are toddlers but hey when the diapers come off so should our problem making come off too.  Our Grandson E-Jay who is coming up to his first birthday is a bundle of joy who we love without measure, but that homeboy is trouble on two little legs.  Our house looks like a “Hurricane” hit it after he comes for a visit.

The other day Melinda went to go pick him up, and she wanted to take our Nissan Cube but I said no just take the new car.  As we left together in separate cars, I taking the Cube got to the corner when I had this major vision of E-Jay in the back seat slinging cookies, crackers and juice all over the leather seats in our brand new car.  I slammed on my brakes, made and instant U-turn and flew down the high way to catch up to Melinda.  Speeding with flashing lights and honking horn I finally caught up to hear and yelled “Pull Over”!

I jumped out of the car and said…I just had a Vision and it wasn’t good!  We traded cars instantly.  Let’s make sure as professional adults we get the reputation of being a “Problem Solver instead of people looking at us and having a vision of a “Burning Inflamed Hemorrhoid” on two feet better known as a pain in the rump!

Don and Melinda Boyer

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”