“Ignoring People”

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Never use “Ignoring People” as a way to say no to their request or offer. This will build you a reputation of being low class, non professional and a flake.  Now none of these may be true of you but those labels will stick on you like super glue to ceramic if you “Ignore” peoples calls texts, and or emails because you don’t know how to tactfully say “No Thank”.  You have every right to say yes or no to whatever anyone asks of you but in the world of business and life you must learn the “Art and Skill” of knowing when and how to say no.

The easiest way and most used way to say no by non professionals is too “Ignore” the follow up from people.  But professionals use the skill of saying no thank you that not only strengthens the relationship but takes it to the next level of increase for both parties.  This is just one skill we teach all our Mentorship Students.  Once you get the reputation that you respond to every follow up request you will never have to worry about customers or clients, business or income because you will have more than you can use for the rest of your life.

Professionals always say “Yes” even when their response or reply is “No Thank You”.

If you are ever going to “Ignore People” the professional way to do it is contact that person and thank them for being part of your network but due to current conditions you are now deleting them from your circle.  The good news is, if you are a Professional before you ever have to come to that state they will have already dropped you, deleted you and took you off of their Facebook page.  We get lots of people who we know de-friend us off their facebook due to our posts. 100% of them are broke, bitter, and angry and can’t deal with all this success talk.

Never get so low in life that it makes you bitter toward people.  We all struggle with the issues of life, we all have challenges but we can choose to be “Bitter” or choose to get “Better”.

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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Peak Performance

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One of the greatest realty we can come to is to acknowledge that all the success we desire is in our hands.  It is based on what we do and never what other people do.  Our business growth, income level and harmonious relationships are base on our performance, not on the performance of others.  It is however very easy to believe that our success is in the hands of what others do and on their performance.  We can look at our employees, our vendors, suppliers, business partners, associates, down line and up line and everyone else in our environment and it could very well be true that their performance is having a big impact on our results.  But the question goes back to “Who chose and allows them to stay in our environment?

Never complain about what you allow to remain. If a business is not working out, a partnership, friendship, vendor, supplier, landlord, office or whatever, if it is not giving you the results in you want it is in you “Power to Change It”.   I will be the first one to admit that many times this is a very hard thing to do.  In the past we have had to let people go from our companies, we had to end toxic friendships, eliminate wrong relationships, end businesses that no longer produced or fit our needs and that was never easy, but was mandatory for us to continue to grow and operate at our “Peak Performance”.

The key element is to focus on operating at your “Peak Performance”.  Look at every part of your personal and business life and ask yourself if you are performing at your “Peak Performance”.  There is nothing worse than a car that misfires, blows smoke out its back pipes and has no power.  30 plus years ago I had cars that kept running even after you turned the key off, looked like a white cloud driving down the road and had every gang banger on the corner throw rocks at me because every time I drove by them and had to shift gears it would back fire and sound like a gunshot!

Today I drive “High Performance Cars” that feel like you are riding on a cloud and for whatever reason no one throws rocks at me anymore.  Get your eyes off of other people and start looking on how to increase and perform at your “Peak Potential”.  If others around you are not giving you the results you want don’t get mad at them…Get Rid of Them!  “Peak Performance” it is in your hands!

Don and Melinda Boyer

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”