Definition to Success

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 “Success is not a Destination, Success is a Definition”.  The reason so many people feel like failures is not just from a lack of results or the missing of set goals.  The biggest culprit is not knowing what Success means to them. There is no such thing as a public standard to measure success with because it’s not a title, rank, position or income destination, it is a personalized definition based on your own standards.  What success means to me may not mean to you.  For me sticking with my health and exercise program warrants total success in my mind and heart.

I would encourage you to take some time out and create your own definition of Success.  What does it really mean to you?  The worst place to measure Success is from other people and what they are doing.  Success can only be measured by what it means to you, the value and the meaning you place on it.  Once you come to terms of what success means to you write down in big letters “This Is What Success Means To Me…(Your Name)”! and then below it write out your definition.  The great thing about this is you can and will change it throughout your life time.

When I was ten years old Success meant throwing a fast ball batters could not hit.  On my 55th birthday my adult kids talked me into throwing a fast ball at Knott’s Berry Farm which almost sent me to the hospital in an ambulance.  It felt like my shoulder broke in two.

I promise you my definition of success is no longer throwing fast balls!

For millions of people earning a million dollars a year seems like a lot of money, but if Bill Gates only made a million dollars a year he would be asking his wife to sign them up for food stamps.  You cannot make Success a destination you can only make it your definition.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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Your Life Matters!

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Your Life Matters! It matters to people and it matters to God. Your life is important, never forget that or ever let anyone or anything tell you different.

If you are not being talked about, gossiped about, criticized, lied about and blocked from peoples Facebook “You Are Not Succeeding Enough”.  Nothing boils the blood of “Losers” more than your “Success”.  Jesus did nothing but good to everyone but He was accused of being a drunk, devil and hanging out with prostitutes. Remember “Criticism” is nothing more than the “Death Gargle of an Underachiever”. 

Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back or those who hate you because you are improving your life and succeeding.  Never exhort to trying to defend yourself orProve Your Innocence”.  Your time and energy is far too valuable to waste it on losers.  The truth of the matter all those who hate you, are bitter towards you and talk about you are so full of anger and bitterness lie awake in bed with insomnia, have that hatred burn an ulcer in their stomach so bad it gives them a bloody stool…all because they hate your success!

I know people who have dropped dead with disease and some right now with cancer because they had and have so much bitterness towards my success in life.  Never pay the high price of bitterness and hatred; it will put you in the grave.

I never offer a defense when I am attacked because my enemies won’t believe it and my true friends don’t need it.  If you are a professional with integrity, and have to prove your innocence to a so called friend…they are not your friend.

Success comes with lots of benefits and the luxury of financial freedom but you do have to learn how to duck and dodge tomatoes.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“How Much Gold Do You Own?”

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“How Much Gold Do You Own?” 

“Leadership Is Not Permission to Dominate, Leadership Is Permission to Protect”

When I look back over the past 34 years of my career I realize that all my Mentors did one thing and that was to help me focus on becoming a “Proficient Leader” for each one knew that Leadership is the foundation of all wealth and success.  They also knew Leadership starts at home, with you.  I was trained at 19 years old by my Mentors on leading myself to develop discipline, excellence, vision, determination, persistence, faith, honor, loyalty, courage and class.  I had to lead myself in these areas before I could ever develop to a point that I could lead others. 

“Challenges Make the Strong Stronger and the Weak Weaker”

Therefore Choose to Be Strong! In whatever profession you are in your ultimate goal is to take on the role and move into the position of leadership. However, many people mistake management for leadership and that is a deadly mistake if you are in the “Team Building Business” which is one of the highest paid professions in the world.  They say if you are a leader and no one is following you then you are simply taking a walk. The true role of leadership is anything but glamorous but in fact one that is of service.  Leadership is many times a very lonely road.  While others are home resting you are up working late into the night and early morning to help and be a service to people.  It is a role that is undervalued and underappreciated.  Most of the time you are the first one to a meeting (setting everything up) and the last one to leave (cleaning everything up).

The crowds enjoy all the value you bring and the service you provide and after the party is over they zoom out with their presents without saying thank you.  This however is a very small price and sacrifice in comparison to knowing that as a true Leader you are changing lives and creating destinies for good people.  And just to put the icing on the cake, it pays so well in income that you will live like a King or Queen with Financial Freedom!  Use your business to “build people” don’t use “people to build your business”!

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Intention of the Heart”

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Be too big for Gossip.  As a high caliber Professional never allow yourself to give gossip or be part of gossip or spread gossip.  You are to high quality of a person to allow yourself to stoop to that type of low caliber behavior. Donald Trump has a policy in his company that he says is one of the main reasons why his company is so successful which is “Never Do Business With Any One You Do Not Trust”Trust is an attribute that is more valuable than all the diamonds in the world.  Trust unlike precious diamonds cannot be purchased.

As humans we often make mistakes and we will continue to make mistakes as long as we are on this earth.  And the fact is the more you accomplish, the more you succeed, the more wealth you create the more mistakes you will make.  Greatness is paved with the road of mistakes.  Mistakes do not make you untrustworthy.  If your company goes bankrupt that does not mean you are dishonest and cannot be trusted.

Trust is not a product of a perfect life that never makes mistake, Trust is a byproduct of the “Intention of the Heart”A person who cannot be trusted is a person who has a wicked heart full of evil intention to do harm to people on purpose.  Once you intentionally do evil to someone from the corruption of the heart you will never be trusted again and that is a very sad thing that will mar your career and future.

Mistakes can be forgiven, status can be restored but broken trust creates an irreparable breach in relationships.  Yes broken trust can be forgiven but trust can never truly be restored.  Be very careful that you do not get marked or marred as one who cannot be trusted.  You can lie about people and say that they cannot be trusted but in time that person’s integrity will rise to the surface and it will be known that those were false accusations.  On the other hand no matter how much you try to hide or cover up a corrupt heart that cannot be trusted, that too will soon surface for all to see.

In everything you do keep a high standard…you are a true Professional!

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer 

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Create Big Dreams

White fluffy clouds in the blue skyMake your Dreams so Big you don’t have time for Drama.  Make them so magnificent that you don’t have time to get “Distracted”. Make them so personal and desirable that you don’t have room to get “Discouraged”. Create Big Dreams and then…set small goals?  Hugh? What?  Did Don get affected by the Blood Moons did he grow a hump on his back, hair on his butt and lose his marbles too?  No, no, no.  The reason most people give up on their dreams before they achieve them is because they set their goals the exact same size of their dreams.

Your Dream is your desired destination and your goals are the steps that get you there.  If your goals are too high you will not be able to reach them and it will halt your entire Journey and you will abandon your dreams.  Yes create a big Dream then go about every day setting doable, reasonable and achievable daily goals.  The way we reach our dreams is to keep moving towards them and never stop.  Like A.L. Williams was famous for saying “All you can do is all you can do but all you can do is Enough”! 

This is why our Gold saving plan is so effective, you set a goal to become financially free and you start that journey by simply saving a Gram of Gold per week about $62.00 USD.  People want to wait to start saving or getting Gold when they can afford it, but unfortunately that day never comes so you have to create it.

Go out and conquer the world just go and do it one day at a time!

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“It Feels Good To Own Gold”!

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I am here to tell you “It Feels Good To Own Gold”!

Can anyone tell me how in the world we are already at the latter end of 2014? It was just 2012 yesterday…right?  Wow, how time just flies by and that is why the most successful people in the world protect, guard, manage and maximize their time.  They live everyday to squeeze the most “juice” out of each day.  Life is about living, and living on your terms whatever those terms mean to you.  Do you know why most people are not living their dreams…don’t answer that because I will tell you.  “They cannot afford to at this present moment”.  When we come to think about it, it is a sad thing to have so much available to us, so much to have and enjoy and the only thing that keeps us away from those good things is “Money” or more precisely put the “lack of money”.

Now here is the fact, “There is No Shortage of Wealth or Money in the World”.  Wealth does not go away it simply exchanges hands, from person to person, from Generation to Generation.  Think about all the wealthy icons, how much money do you think Henry Ford made in his life time?  Did he get to take one dime of all those millions of dollars he made in his life time? Nope, but his wealth is still here on earth with his family still working.

If there is no shortage of wealth on the earth than why are most people broke.  Why don’t they have their fare share of money to live their dreams? It is due to their personal choice of things.

You get to choose to practice what broke people do and continue to stay broke and struggling or you get to choose to practice what rich people do and create financial freedom.

Rich people spend less than they earn, put some of what they save into superior currency of Gold bullion and increase their earning capacity.

Broke people spend every dime they earn plus money they don’t have on credit cards, don’t have a dime in savings, and search their closets like a pirate seeking treasures to find any gold jewelry they can so that they can go and sell it!

You are on one of these two plans and whatever plan you are on explains your present conditions and predicts your future outcome.  Ask yourself today what plan you are on, it’s a sobering question. Do yourself a great favor and read the book “The Richest Man in Babylon”.

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer 

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Success is the Harvest

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Sometimes we have to put money down in order for our income to go up! Never be afraid to invest in yourself, knowledge, education and business.  You are your best investment.  We spend thousands of dollars a year on books, programs, audios, home study courses, seminars and events so that we can be the best we can be so that we can serve you the best that we can.  I am always amazed how people are afraid to invest a few hundred dollars to go to a week end event to improve their life and business but have no problem spending a few hundred dollars a month on food and social drinks.

Success is the harvest of the time, energy, sacrifice and money we have invested in our lives to grow and expand personally as well as professionally. There have been many times that we have found out about an upcoming seminar and training event and cleared our entire calendar to attended that event.  As we move forward in our journey if we keep in the forefront of our mind that in order to reap much we must invest much to become a person and professional of excellence and quality.

Life will always have its up’s and down’s but that does not require us to ride that roller coaster of life.  We can grow to the point and place in life that we ride the waves of life like a professional and skillful surfer in the open ocean.  When it comes to life, live it like a”Professional”.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”