Get Clear and Remove the Fear

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Get Clear and Remove the Fear.  Fear of failure, fear of the future, fear of lack, fear of sickness and every other fear is a byproduct of not being
fully clear of the things we want.  People sometimes think because they know what they don’t want that this is the same thing as of knowing what they do want.  Just knowing what you don’t want does not mean you are crystal clear on what you do want, and when you are not clear on what you want it creates a breeding ground for fear.  I have found over the past 30 years being in the self help business that most people have a hard time getting clear on what they want because they cannot figure out how they could ever achieve those things they would really love to have.  Of course you cannot figure out how to get the things you want, if you could you would already have them.  The reason we cannot figure out how to get the things we want is because the intellectual mind was never designed to figure the how, it is only designed to figure out the “What” we want.

Fear will grip your mind and heart and attract all the wrong things to you, so you must learn how to conquer and defeat fear and give it no place in your life.  The starting point to eliminate fear is to become crystal clear on what you want.and then keep that image no matter what.

Don and Melinda Boyer

5 Steps to Help you Excel in Life and Business

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  1. Create your Future.  Most people try to rewrite their past instead of working on creating their future. Never waste time on the past, focus on writing your future. 
  2. Know your Currency.  The worst type of currency you can accept for your goods and services is “future promises of more business”.  When people start telling me if you discount your rate I can get you more work, I tell them just pay me my price and you can keep the future work for yourself.  Future promises of “more” rarely come through and that makes it bad currency. 
  3. Control your Thoughts.  Your thoughts are the instructions and blue prints you give to the creative factor of life that brings to pass your results and conditions.  One of the wisest men in the world said over 5000 years ago, (King Solomon) “as you think in your heart so you become”.  Your thoughts are one of the few things that we have total control over but most people exercise the least control of.
  4. Control your Words.  Life and death are in the power of your words was another life principle taught by King Solomon.  Take a moment and notice the words you are speaking.  God told us we can have what we say but most are saying what they have…think and ponder on that!
  5. Eliminate Fear.  Don’t be afraid of failure and don’t be afraid of success.  Life is designed to be enjoyed, explored, investigate, grow, expand and take it all in. Never allow fear to box you in or limit you in any way. Abandon fear and choose to live! 

Don and Melinda Boyer