Definition to Success

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 “Success is not a Destination, Success is a Definition”.  The reason so many people feel like failures is not just from a lack of results or the missing of set goals.  The biggest culprit is not knowing what Success means to them. There is no such thing as a public standard to measure success with because it’s not a title, rank, position or income destination, it is a personalized definition based on your own standards.  What success means to me may not mean to you.  For me sticking with my health and exercise program warrants total success in my mind and heart.

I would encourage you to take some time out and create your own definition of Success.  What does it really mean to you?  The worst place to measure Success is from other people and what they are doing.  Success can only be measured by what it means to you, the value and the meaning you place on it.  Once you come to terms of what success means to you write down in big letters “This Is What Success Means To Me…(Your Name)”! and then below it write out your definition.  The great thing about this is you can and will change it throughout your life time.

When I was ten years old Success meant throwing a fast ball batters could not hit.  On my 55th birthday my adult kids talked me into throwing a fast ball at Knott’s Berry Farm which almost sent me to the hospital in an ambulance.  It felt like my shoulder broke in two.

I promise you my definition of success is no longer throwing fast balls!

For millions of people earning a million dollars a year seems like a lot of money, but if Bill Gates only made a million dollars a year he would be asking his wife to sign them up for food stamps.  You cannot make Success a destination you can only make it your definition.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Success is the Harvest

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Sometimes we have to put money down in order for our income to go up! Never be afraid to invest in yourself, knowledge, education and business.  You are your best investment.  We spend thousands of dollars a year on books, programs, audios, home study courses, seminars and events so that we can be the best we can be so that we can serve you the best that we can.  I am always amazed how people are afraid to invest a few hundred dollars to go to a week end event to improve their life and business but have no problem spending a few hundred dollars a month on food and social drinks.

Success is the harvest of the time, energy, sacrifice and money we have invested in our lives to grow and expand personally as well as professionally. There have been many times that we have found out about an upcoming seminar and training event and cleared our entire calendar to attended that event.  As we move forward in our journey if we keep in the forefront of our mind that in order to reap much we must invest much to become a person and professional of excellence and quality.

Life will always have its up’s and down’s but that does not require us to ride that roller coaster of life.  We can grow to the point and place in life that we ride the waves of life like a professional and skillful surfer in the open ocean.  When it comes to life, live it like a”Professional”.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Problems We Solve”

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We are known and remembered by the “Problems We Solve” or the “Problems We Create”.

The marketplace is very attracted to those who solve problems and will in fact pay high fees depending on the importance of the problems you solve. This is why I counsel business owners and professionals never “frustrate your customers and clients” but always seek to make your business culture one that is easy and user friendly.  We welcome problem solvers with open arms and appreciate their contribution to our life, but when we encounter a “problem creator” we want to run to the rest room and throw up!

There are some people no matter what, they always have problems, create problems and are a major problem.  The sad fact is, they don’t want their problems solved they just enjoy causing problems.  These people are extremely toxic and addicting and difficult to rid your business and life from, that is what makes them so dangerous.  It’s ok to be a “walking problem” when we are toddlers but hey when the diapers come off so should our problem making come off too.  Our Grandson E-Jay who is coming up to his first birthday is a bundle of joy who we love without measure, but that homeboy is trouble on two little legs.  Our house looks like a “Hurricane” hit it after he comes for a visit.

The other day Melinda went to go pick him up, and she wanted to take our Nissan Cube but I said no just take the new car.  As we left together in separate cars, I taking the Cube got to the corner when I had this major vision of E-Jay in the back seat slinging cookies, crackers and juice all over the leather seats in our brand new car.  I slammed on my brakes, made and instant U-turn and flew down the high way to catch up to Melinda.  Speeding with flashing lights and honking horn I finally caught up to hear and yelled “Pull Over”!

I jumped out of the car and said…I just had a Vision and it wasn’t good!  We traded cars instantly.  Let’s make sure as professional adults we get the reputation of being a “Problem Solver instead of people looking at us and having a vision of a “Burning Inflamed Hemorrhoid” on two feet better known as a pain in the rump!

Don and Melinda Boyer

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Give Up

Giving-up-quoteSometimes you have to “Give Up” before you can “Go Up”.  Give up?  That sounds strange coming from a Self Help Expert.  Think about it, if you want excellent health and you smoke, you will have to “Give Up” smoking, if you drink you will have to “Give Up” drinking, and if you eat poorly you will have to “Give Up” junk food if…Good Health is your objective.

The same is true in business.  There are some customers, clients, relationships, contacts, networks, products, associates and businesses that you have to “Give Up” before you can progressively “Go Up”.  Giving Up on things that no longer work be it people, places or things is “Never Easy” but “Absolutely Necessary” to move on, move up and move forward.  It is always painful to exit relationships be it business or personal even though they are no longer working and have become toxic.

I am always saddened when I have to finally “Give Up” on someone and walk away.  My Mentor taught me it is the saddest day in the life of a protégé’ when their Mentor steps out of their life.  My medical doctor told me on one visit “When you stop caring about your health is the day I stop caring about your health”At first I was highly offended at his comment but on the way home I realized what he said was right and truthful.

As long as you hang on to and refuse to “Give Up” the things that no longer work or serve you they will continue to eat away your success, energy, time, life, finances, health and business.  People have refused to “Give Up” smoking; excessive drinking and a host of other addictions and those things put them in their grave.  Business owners have refused to “Give Up” bad customers and/or employees and it drove them into bankruptcy.

I do my best to serve and acquire the Right people and discipline; no force myself to “Give Up” the wrong people.  By doing this I am able to do more good for people while at the same time be the best I can be.  Take a look at your life and business and see if there is anything you need to…”Give Up” in order for you to “Go Up”

Don and Melinda Boyer

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Resolving Obstacles

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Problems, struggles and challenges do not go way because we want them too, they don’t dissolve even if we desperately need them to go away.  The only way obstacles are resolved and overcome is by dealing with them.  Because it is much easier to focus on doing the things we enjoy in life and business it becomes very easy to ignore issues that we would rather not deal with.  However, whenever we have areas that need to be addressed unless we address them head on they do not go away but in fact get worse.

Living a successful and abundant life requires daily discipline, growth and investment in you.  Look at your life as the greatest investment on earth.  What are you daily putting in? Because what you put in is what you put out.  It is the same with our money.  How we look and view our money will determine our financial future.  Nobody could possibly deny the economy problem we are facing globally. One cannot deny the fact that the US dollar is in serious trouble and that we are headed for another 1929 financial crash.  People in 1929 were warned 3 years before the crash that is was coming.  The ones saying that were labeled “Crazy Fanatics” that should be put in a mental hospital.  It was the “Roaring 20’s” how could they have a financial collapse?

So the masses (like today) refused to believe it and do anything about it.  The result was complete devastation for millions of people.  Do you realize right now we are in that exact same position and unless you do something like building up your gold savings you are going to be in serious financial trouble when it hits.  Let me show you how to start building up your gold 1 gram at a time, turning $65.00 US dollars into 65.00 of Gold Bullion.  Don’t ignore the major financial problem this country and the US dollar are in.  Do your home work and your own investigation.  Without owning Gold how could anyone sleep at night?  Remember I been acquiring Gold since 1980 so I am not telling you about Gold from the eyes of a novice or amateur gold collector.

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold”

 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Turn your Paper Money Into Gold

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There are two major things I always strive for:

  1. Multiply my (financial) seed (by sowing it)
  2. Turn paper into Gold!

During the dark ages “Alchemists” would work on trying to mix elements together to produce Gold.  I am told that even people like Isaac Newton and Nostradamus took this study of trying to create Gold serious.  Of course they failed for Gold cannot be manufactured. The interesting thing about Gold is that there is a very limited supply of it and there is not enough for everyone and that is one reason why it is so desirable and precious.  Ask any wealthy person and they will tell you “It’s foolish and financial suicide not to own some Gold”. 

The Alchemist dreamed of taking base metals and turning them into Gold, the fairy tale writer dreamed and wrote about a “Goose that lays Gold Eggs” and the little green man searches for the Pot of Gold at the end of the Rainbow.  

Of course we would all love if these “fictitious” tales were true but we all know they are not but… There is one such tale much like these fictitious ones except this one is real.  You can actually turn “paper” into Gold.  You see, that is exactly what we do when we acquire Gold Bullion.  We are taking paper money (which is losing its buying power by the day) and turning it into pure Gold.  In the end no intelligent person believes that paper currency or paper money will last and is stable.  Paper is paper and it does not have much value in and of itself, even if it is green.  In 1971 Richard Nixon took the US dollar off of the Gold standard making the US currency backed by nothing more than the paper it’s printed on.  This way the Government can print as much of it as it wants creating the illusion that “All is Well and Prosperous”.  Just look at our economy and you will see the wisdom in that theory.

Take some of your money that you work so hard for and turn it into Gold and let Gold work hard for you!

Don and Melinda Boyer

DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

The Journey of 2008

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If you did not read yesterday’s email, go back and read it or you will not understand what I am talking about today.  With that being said lets continue the story…

January 4, 2008 we flew back home and I went back to work as usual, ready to keep the pace we left with.  Still not really knowing what was wrong I just put it on the back burner and continued to work.  However by March I had noticed that my list seemed asleep.  Meaning sales had been down and sluggish and my following customer base just was not responding like normal. I remember telling a friend of mine “My List has fallen asleep and I need to wake them up”.  I was half way joking not really being concerned about it because we were still making a lot of money and I figured it was a slump that would soon pass.

By October of that year 2008 it started becoming acutely visible that something now was drastically wrong.  My list was not waking up and I started seeing people who once had a lot of money now suddenly starting to struggle.  Financially our companies were still fine and we even were expanding in some new areas.  By the end of the year of 2008 when our taxes were done we were down about 100k from 2007.  Still not worried or scared but was certainly concerned now.  Something strange was happening in the fact that many wealthy people I knew were finding themselves in financial trouble for the first time in their professional lives and while incomes were going down the price of Gold kept going up.  That was an alarm bell I did not hear or recognize.

As 2008 closed we had new plans, new formats and new products and we were going to turn things around in 2009 by…  (We will pick up story tomorrow)

Don and Melinda Boyer     DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

The BIG Tooth!

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The other day I had noticed that I been really wound up tight for some time now, and with the work pace that I and Melinda keep its very easy to get caught up in it and not pay attention to mental signals that say “Yield” “Reduce Speed” “Curve Ahead” “Watch Out for Deer” and even the big red one that says “Stop”.   As I was emotionally flying pass all these signs the final one came on Monday morning when I went to brush my teeth and my front bottom tooth fell out and went down the drain!

Now I take excellent care of my oral hygiene and spent 26k on dental implants fixing my smile back in 2006.  When that tooth fell out I looked like a Boxer that lost a fight! As I stood there looking at myself in the mirror and this big giant gap in my teeth it came crashing down on me that I have been so consumed with work that along the way “I Lost My Peace” and now I lost my cotton picking tooth.

If you don’t recognize that you lost your Peace the next wakeup call is you may lose your teeth! It took two visits to my dentist and two days without a tooth to get it back in and replaced. I have one of the top cosmetic dentists in California and this dude is not cheap.  The good news is, it made me kingly aware that I lost my Peace in my heart.  It was a strange thing to happen since Melinda had been gone for two days on family business and I was “home alone”.

For the two days that I sat at home with the wind whistling through my missing tooth I had a serious talk with myself and God and realized the plan and path to prosperity is to keep “God in your heart and Gold in your pockets”.

Peace is the only thing that will safely navigate us through the storms of life and gold is the only road map that will get us through financial struggles in life.  Peace is priceless even though it’s free from God when you ask Him for it and Gold is still affordable that anyone can obtain it.

Position yourself with Peace and Prosperity it really is the only way to live.  My peace is back in my heart and my tooth back in my head, got gold in my pockets and I am a thankful man.

Don and Melinda Boyer

www.DonBoyerAuthor.com

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

The Power of Respect

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What is the bonding cement of all successful relationships be they personal, business or professional? “Respect” Once respect is gone the relationship is dead, it’s like trying to hold up a body without a skeletal frame work. No amount of denial, fake laughter or words of “forgiveness’ will heal or mend the wound. Unfortunately once respect is lost it’s almost impossible to regain.  Many people think they lose respect for someone because they get angry or upset with them, but anger does not mean the loss of respect. A relationship can bounce back from anger, disagreements and even arguments, but if you detour into a loss of respect it is usually over.

The best way I have found to deal with relationships that have gone into disrespect is simply to forgive and end them.  To try and “forgive” and continue with the relationship only causes the disrespect to continue and cause “emotional infection”.  Because we are human we are going to do things that will cause people to lose respect for us, and people will do things that will cause us to lose respect for them.  That is simply a part of life.

You never want to lose respect for anyone, however when it does occur in business you can live, survive and continue to thrive.  But never allow yourself to lose respect for your spouse or family.  Let love reign supreme so that no matter what occurs you never lose respect in that arena of your life.

If you have lost respect for something or someone forgive it, bury it and move on to healing and restoration. Never under estimate the power of “Respect’.  It will build or destroy fortunes.  Here is the interesting thing, many times losing respect for someone is due to our own personal hang ups and someone losing respect for us was a byproduct of their own problems.

The answer I have found is to do your very best in everything you do and that way no matter how the chips fall you can walk with your head held high.  If you do that, you can live and operate in peace when the element of “Respect” fly’s out the window.

If you Respect your financial future, do yourself a favor and turn some of your paper money each week into superior Gold money.  Nothing feels better than saving and having that Gold stuff in your bank.  When  you look at your Gold you will know that you own that money, the rest of the money you earned is gone to the creditors, stores, merchants and a host of others things that you gave your money too.

Don and Melinda Boyer

www.DonBoyerAuthor.com

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owing Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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“Passion” or “Panic”?

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“Passion” or “Panic”?  We are going about to grow our business from a position of Passion or position of Panic.  All selling and marketing should stem from a position of “Promoting”.  When we go about to grow our business from a point of “panic” we protrude force, struggle, strain, difficulty and stress and that can rarely produce the results we wantand never sustain the results we want.  However when we go about our business out of “Passion” we no longer try to sell, convince, persuade or force our way to a sale but “Promote our way to a sale”.

Passion marketing and selling is executed through educating, teaching and promoting.  Does a theater try to sell movie tickets?  Of course not yet they sell millions of dollars worth of them every day.  If they don’t try to sell tickets how do they sell so many of them?  By promoting the movie relentlessly through trailers, commercials, billboards, radio, television, internet, posters, flyers, bus signs, bench signs, taxi signs, blimps, fast food chains, and a ton of other menus.

With all this exposure and promoting they never once ask you or force you to buy a ticket.  The entertainment industry is driven from passion about the movie and have Mastered the “Art of Promotion”.  Here is the key, the film industry or theater industry does not worry about who will and who will not buy a ticket, that is not their concern because they know as long as they go about their marketing from “Passion and Promotion” the ticket sales will take care of itself!

My “Passion” is to help people eradicate lack from their life and replace it with Financial Freedom. This is why I am so dogmatic about helping people save and accumulate Gold Bullion. To learn how to take weak unstable paper money and put it into strong stable “Gold Money”.GoldFinancial disaster is about to hit us globally and especially here in America and unless you protect yourself now by purchasing a little bit of gold each week (as little as $65.00) you will not survive these coming crises.  Here are some very important facts about Gold that will give you rectal leakage if you do not own any Gold right now:

  1. If you start accumulating Gold you have a strong probability of getting wealthy
  2. If you fail to accumulate Gold you are almost 100% guaranteed to become broke
  3. The rich all around the world are stocking piling Gold in their vaults and the poor  ignorantly have no clue about that but like a cow going to the slaughter trade whatever gold they do have in exchange for the paper money the rich know has little value.
  4. The rich are doing something about the financial disaster that is about to hit, they are massively stocking up in Gold.
  5. The poor are doing absolutely nothing about the coming financial disaster, and pretend and act as though it is not coming.

Do you think that Gold is volatile and that Gold prices go up and down?  If you do not own any Gold I guarantee you answered “Yes”.  As long as you stay ignorant about gold you will never feel the urgency or create a strong enough desire to accumulate it.  Gold does not ever go up or down in price, it stays constant and stable.  It is the dollar that goes up and down.  Let me give you an example to understand this.

In 2003 I would go to my broker with 3 $100.00 bills and walk out with 1 ounce of Gold. Today I have to walk in with 13 $100.00 bills to walk out with the same 1 ounce of Gold.  The ounce of Gold did not change one bit, but the US paper dollar got weaker, buys less and takes more of them to purchase the same amount of Gold.

Gold is strong and stays strong, but paper money only gets weaker and weaker and will never bounce back in strength…ever!  And this is the thing you are breaking your back for to accumulate?  This is the system of the poor and ignorant and not that of the wise and wealthy.

I have been buying Gold Bullion since 1980 and here is the current system I use that thousands are using right now to grow rich and financially secure.  Accumulate small amounts of Gold each week (about a gram/$65.00) and tell others about this plan. It is that simple and anyone can do it but very few will…that is the sad part of it all.

In fact we have mastered a 12 week plan using this system that thousands are using around the world and earning over $40,000.00 a month.

Take a moment and just listen to these ordinary people who took heed to this Gold Message and are making this type of income on this simple plan.  The only difference between you and them other than their income is they chose to take action on this plan.

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It use to be “If you want to get rich you better own gold” now its “If you want to survive you have to own gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer

www.DonBoyerAuthor.com