“Ignoring People”

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Never use “Ignoring People” as a way to say no to their request or offer. This will build you a reputation of being low class, non professional and a flake.  Now none of these may be true of you but those labels will stick on you like super glue to ceramic if you “Ignore” peoples calls texts, and or emails because you don’t know how to tactfully say “No Thank”.  You have every right to say yes or no to whatever anyone asks of you but in the world of business and life you must learn the “Art and Skill” of knowing when and how to say no.

The easiest way and most used way to say no by non professionals is too “Ignore” the follow up from people.  But professionals use the skill of saying no thank you that not only strengthens the relationship but takes it to the next level of increase for both parties.  This is just one skill we teach all our Mentorship Students.  Once you get the reputation that you respond to every follow up request you will never have to worry about customers or clients, business or income because you will have more than you can use for the rest of your life.

Professionals always say “Yes” even when their response or reply is “No Thank You”.

If you are ever going to “Ignore People” the professional way to do it is contact that person and thank them for being part of your network but due to current conditions you are now deleting them from your circle.  The good news is, if you are a Professional before you ever have to come to that state they will have already dropped you, deleted you and took you off of their Facebook page.  We get lots of people who we know de-friend us off their facebook due to our posts. 100% of them are broke, bitter, and angry and can’t deal with all this success talk.

Never get so low in life that it makes you bitter toward people.  We all struggle with the issues of life, we all have challenges but we can choose to be “Bitter” or choose to get “Better”.

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

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Raise Your “Personal Standards”

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Raise your “Personal Standards” if you want to excel in life, business, income and in your chosen profession.  Professionals do not work unprofessionally, sloppy, off the cuff, shoot from the hip or haphazardly. Professionals have a higher standard of integrity, protocol and humbleness (self control).  There is nothing more pathetic than seeing a professional athletic that is paid millions of dollars a year act “unprofessional on the field”.  Professionals constantly work towards the 8 point professional standard.

Professionals work to…

  1. Improve themselves
  2. Improve their mission
  3. Improve their values
  4. Improve their service
  5. Improve their performance
  6. Improve their contribution
  7. Improve their thinking
  8. Improve their relationships

This is why professionals earn professional incomes.  Go Pro, it will give you everything you need and most of what you want.

Don and Melinda Boyer

Do You Have The Millionaire Habit?

“Saving a Part of Your Income Each Week and Putting It into Gold” 

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Mental Gold

goldmedalFrom Childhood I have been fascinated with the history of the Gold Rush days.  Tales of wonderful true stories of those brave men and women who staked everything they had and endured unfathomable conditions in the hopes of striking it rich. Hitting that vein where gold flows like honey from a comb.  Indeed there were some who did exactly that but those folks were few and far in between.

Our earth is filled with billions upon billions of dollars worth of gold but no matter how vast the supply is, somewhere at some point there is a limit.  We may never know what that limit is, but there is a limit.  However there is one gold mine on earth that its resources are unlimited and inexhaustible.  It has more wealth in it than all the gold on earth.  The great news is, this gold mine belongs to you and you can pull out as much wealth from it as you desire.

You do not need a treasure map to find this gold mine nor do you need expensive equipment to mine it out.  Where is all this gold?  It is in your mind, it is called Mental Gold.  You see, all wealth is a by-product of ideas; before any product ever hits the market it is first created in some ones thoughts.  It was first mental gold (an idea) before it was turned into thinkingphysical gold (money).

There is more money, wealth and gold in your mind than all the wealth that was in King Solomon kingdom.  The gold in your mind is unlimited and inexhaustible.  It is where all riches come from.  It is the starting point the creation of all wealth and riches.  You can real pan gold from the rivers of your mind.

Just like you have to go within a natural gold mine to bring it without, you must also go within to bring mental gold without.   Here are 3 easy steps to mine the gold that is in your mind.

Acknowledgement

You must acknowledge the fact that all wealth starts with ideas. Every product, service, business, house, trailer, shirt and shoe came from an idea.  Some thought it first, than brought it forth.  Right now you are just one idea away from becoming a millionaire.  You are one idea away from having a cash flow stream that has no end.  One idea and two words made one man a millionaire at the turn of the century.

Bottle it! That is how sodas went from the fountain in drug stores to bottles in the home.  A man sitting in a drug store enjoying his soft drink thought What a great idea to have this in a bottle.  He went to the soda company and said I have an idea and want a million dollars for it.  Did he get his million dollars?  Well, let me ask you, have you ever drunk a soda from a bottle?

Know what you want

Know exactly what you want.  Ninety five out of a hundred people have no clue of what they really want.  When you order your food at a restaurant do you ask for a specific dish or do you just say bring me some food?  If you have to know what you want and be specific at a restaurant, does it seem unreasonable that you would have to know what you want in life in specific terms in order to get it?

The reason why most people are challenged with not knowing what they want is because they have been trained and programmed by people and experiences not to go after their dreams because to do so only leads to frustration, disappointment and pain.  Although this is a true fact for millions of people, it does not have to be this way.  You can reach all of your dreams you can have what you want and be who you want to be.  This blog is teaching you how to do just that.

The second thing that trips people up from knowing what they want is they cannot figure out how in the world they could get it.  They go into their knowledge bank in their head and cannot find the answers so they just accept the fact they cannot have what they truly want.  Let me put a 20 foot speaker next to your ear and shout with a high-powered microphone…

It is not your job to figure out how you are going to get the things you want; your only job is to figure out what you want!

Everyone is so plugged up with how they are going to accomplish their dreams.  Who told you it was your job to come up with a plan on how to accomplish your dreams anyway?  Who made you Master Substance of the Universe?  The reason why you struggle with getting what you want is you are trying to do a job that is not yours.  If you want light in your house, your job is to turn on a switch but instead you are rubbing two sticks together like a crazy person trying to generate electricity to light up the room.

No wonder life is so hard for most people; they do not even know what their job and responsibility are in life.  If you try to produce gold (riches) with your hands you will break your back.  If you produce gold (riches) from your thoughts you will break the bank.  What do you want to do?  The choice is yours.

Every time you know exactly what you want and are crystal clear about it, it is like having a pan full dirt taken from a river bed that is filled with gold and you are swirling it around to expose those nuggets.  You are panning gold from the river of your mind!

Thinking Right

Thinking right means training yourself to only think on the things you want.  law of attractionThinking wrong is thinking on things you do not want.  Most people allow their thinking to be dictated by the things that are going on around them.  If your rent is $1500.00 a month and your check book says you only have $900.00 in it are your going to let that affect your thoughts?  98% of all people will and then start thinking about all the things they do not want; asking people for a loan, a phone call from the landlord and a ton of other negative things that your mind can come up with.  Does this help solve the problem?  No, it only extends and prolongs the pain of those conditions, but the worse thing those negative thoughts do is create the same lack  in the future repeating themselves again.  The only thing that will change those circumstances around for good is to force, train and discipline yourself to keep thinking and looking at the things you really want.

Am I saying that if you were in that condition that just thinking about what you want (the full amount of rent money) would make the shortage of money just pop out of thin air?  No!  No more than if you were starving and you took a carrot seed put it in the ground and expect it to pop up a full-grown carrot in 10 minutes so that you can eat it.

You may still have to go through whatever uncomfortable actions you have to take to get the rent money, but what thinking right will do is get you to a place that you never have to face have those kind of conditions again.  Please understand that thinking right does not deliver you from unpleasant conditions, it is a creator of producing pleasant conditions for your life. 

Right Thinking creates the future

Not erase the past.

What you now have in your life is a product of your past (thinking, paradigms and actions) what you will have tomorrow is a product of your present (thinking, paradigms and actions).  You can guarantee a great tomorrow by creating great thoughts today.  When you focus and think about the things you want today it will show up in your future.  This happens by law not chance.  Therefore the truth of the matter is…

You manufacture tomorrow Today!

No one can control your thoughts but you.  Your thoughts are the only thing in life that you have 100 percent control of.  You can think what you want when you want and nobody can change or alter that but you.  Are you choosing your thoughts based on what you want or are you letting your circumstance dictate your thoughts according to have you have?  Unless you are thinking of the things you want you will always keep getting all things you now have.  This is always true because life is based on set laws not morality, chance or good luck.

Your future is not in the hands of the stars or crystals, or prophets but in the power of your thoughts and actions.  Your thoughts predict your future not people and things.  People may influence your thoughts that create your future, but in the end it was your thoughts that created it.

If you want to have wealth, riches and a magnificent life you can have it.  It all starts with right thinking and right thinking means thinking on things you want and not on all the things you do not want.  It is as simple as that.

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Don and Melinda