Forgive First and Feelings Will Follow

Loving your Spouce

There are many road blocks that arise on the pathway of success and one of them are things that people do to offend us.  Most of the time it’s not the actual offense that does the damage but the opportunity it affords to hold un-forgiveness in our heart. Un-forgiveness harms no one but our own selves. It is like drinking poison and then expecting the other person to drop dead.

Forgive first and feelings will follow.

Forgiveness is a choice not a feeling; the feelings of forgiveness follow our decision to forgive as a physical form of validation of our decision. Don’t allow the short comings of others to plug up the river of plenty!  Live free, live powerfully, live wealthy, choose to forgive…and sometimes that means even forgiving you!

Don and Melinda Boyer

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