Life, a wonderful University

Everything that comes your way is a “great learning experience” when you live and conduct your life from an energetic platform.  The legendary and late Jim Rohn, was fond of saying, “Take it all in, the good and the not so good, because it’s all precious “.   The fact of the matter is, “Life is a wonderful learning University” filled with opportunities for us to grow and expand and it can be an enjoyable experience even when it does not fit in our comfort zone as long as we operate and live from an Energy based platform of understanding.  What do I do when things seem to go astray, when it seems like most people on the planet have lost their marbles and gone crazy, when friends and family behavior and actions disappoint you and it seems like you are being drawn into a vacuum of crazy lead by Bozo the Clown?   I laugh out loud, as hard as I can until my eyes water and my cheeks turn red, and lift my hands to the sky and start praising and thanking for all the good in life, sending up pure unadulterated, sincere gratitude for all things and for all people and all situations and of course open up the champagne.

Once I do that, I get recharged, reenergized, refocused and everything goes right back into place.  It is kind of like going to the Chiropractor, when they adjust your back and you crackle like a fourth of July firecracker and you get off the bed and feel great!

I rejoice in all things, and choose a positive attitude, taking control of my thoughts, feelings, emotions and actions.  I had a wonderful conversation one day with Troy McClain in which the discussion included, “when things seem like they are going in the wrong direction, just as act as if they were going in the right direction”.  What a great spin on the concept of “Care, but not that much”.  I love our good friend Ed Foreman because he has taught me how to always keep smiling and laughing in all situations.  As we learn in our GIN curriculum, “look for the Gold”.

Don and Melinda Boyer

 

Definition to Success

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 “Success is not a Destination, Success is a Definition”.  The reason so many people feel like failures is not just from a lack of results or the missing of set goals.  The biggest culprit is not knowing what Success means to them. There is no such thing as a public standard to measure success with because it’s not a title, rank, position or income destination, it is a personalized definition based on your own standards.  What success means to me may not mean to you.  For me sticking with my health and exercise program warrants total success in my mind and heart.

I would encourage you to take some time out and create your own definition of Success.  What does it really mean to you?  The worst place to measure Success is from other people and what they are doing.  Success can only be measured by what it means to you, the value and the meaning you place on it.  Once you come to terms of what success means to you write down in big letters “This Is What Success Means To Me…(Your Name)”! and then below it write out your definition.  The great thing about this is you can and will change it throughout your life time.

When I was ten years old Success meant throwing a fast ball batters could not hit.  On my 55th birthday my adult kids talked me into throwing a fast ball at Knott’s Berry Farm which almost sent me to the hospital in an ambulance.  It felt like my shoulder broke in two.

I promise you my definition of success is no longer throwing fast balls!

For millions of people earning a million dollars a year seems like a lot of money, but if Bill Gates only made a million dollars a year he would be asking his wife to sign them up for food stamps.  You cannot make Success a destination you can only make it your definition.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

Significant Success

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You will never have significant success in anything until it becomes an obsession with you. An obsession is something that consumes your thoughts, time and actions. You can also refer this as “Passion”.  When you have “Passion” you do not need things or people to motivate you, inspire you, push you or light your fire.  Passion is like a burning inferno that moves you into massive action that knows no such thing as defeat, discouragement, disappointment, despair or double mindedness.  Passion eliminates fear and doubt as well as procrastination.

The reason so many people walk around dead, uninspired, unmotivated, discouraged, defeated and lethargic lives is because they are not passionate about what they are doing.  Until you become passionate about financial freedom you will always struggle with lack and shortage, until you get passion for getting better and doing better you will stay at your current level and never progress forward.  Many people mistake excitement with passion.  Excitement is like a vapor of alcohol that catches fire and makes a bright flame but soon goes out and disappears as the alcohol evaporates.

Passion is like the internal lava of a volcano a perpetual mass of burning energy. In business, once your passion goes down so does your business and income.  And unless you keep the fires of passion burning and alive your dreams, business and income will go out!  Never leave the responsibility of your passion in the hands of another.  The fact is nobody can flame the fires of passion in our heart except us

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

 

Your Life Matters!

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Your Life Matters! It matters to people and it matters to God. Your life is important, never forget that or ever let anyone or anything tell you different.

If you are not being talked about, gossiped about, criticized, lied about and blocked from peoples Facebook “You Are Not Succeeding Enough”.  Nothing boils the blood of “Losers” more than your “Success”.  Jesus did nothing but good to everyone but He was accused of being a drunk, devil and hanging out with prostitutes. Remember “Criticism” is nothing more than the “Death Gargle of an Underachiever”. 

Don’t worry about those who talk behind your back or those who hate you because you are improving your life and succeeding.  Never exhort to trying to defend yourself orProve Your Innocence”.  Your time and energy is far too valuable to waste it on losers.  The truth of the matter all those who hate you, are bitter towards you and talk about you are so full of anger and bitterness lie awake in bed with insomnia, have that hatred burn an ulcer in their stomach so bad it gives them a bloody stool…all because they hate your success!

I know people who have dropped dead with disease and some right now with cancer because they had and have so much bitterness towards my success in life.  Never pay the high price of bitterness and hatred; it will put you in the grave.

I never offer a defense when I am attacked because my enemies won’t believe it and my true friends don’t need it.  If you are a professional with integrity, and have to prove your innocence to a so called friend…they are not your friend.

Success comes with lots of benefits and the luxury of financial freedom but you do have to learn how to duck and dodge tomatoes.

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Ignoring People”

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Never use “Ignoring People” as a way to say no to their request or offer. This will build you a reputation of being low class, non professional and a flake.  Now none of these may be true of you but those labels will stick on you like super glue to ceramic if you “Ignore” peoples calls texts, and or emails because you don’t know how to tactfully say “No Thank”.  You have every right to say yes or no to whatever anyone asks of you but in the world of business and life you must learn the “Art and Skill” of knowing when and how to say no.

The easiest way and most used way to say no by non professionals is too “Ignore” the follow up from people.  But professionals use the skill of saying no thank you that not only strengthens the relationship but takes it to the next level of increase for both parties.  This is just one skill we teach all our Mentorship Students.  Once you get the reputation that you respond to every follow up request you will never have to worry about customers or clients, business or income because you will have more than you can use for the rest of your life.

Professionals always say “Yes” even when their response or reply is “No Thank You”.

If you are ever going to “Ignore People” the professional way to do it is contact that person and thank them for being part of your network but due to current conditions you are now deleting them from your circle.  The good news is, if you are a Professional before you ever have to come to that state they will have already dropped you, deleted you and took you off of their Facebook page.  We get lots of people who we know de-friend us off their facebook due to our posts. 100% of them are broke, bitter, and angry and can’t deal with all this success talk.

Never get so low in life that it makes you bitter toward people.  We all struggle with the issues of life, we all have challenges but we can choose to be “Bitter” or choose to get “Better”.

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer

“Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“How Much Gold Do You Own?”

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“How Much Gold Do You Own?” 

“Leadership Is Not Permission to Dominate, Leadership Is Permission to Protect”

When I look back over the past 34 years of my career I realize that all my Mentors did one thing and that was to help me focus on becoming a “Proficient Leader” for each one knew that Leadership is the foundation of all wealth and success.  They also knew Leadership starts at home, with you.  I was trained at 19 years old by my Mentors on leading myself to develop discipline, excellence, vision, determination, persistence, faith, honor, loyalty, courage and class.  I had to lead myself in these areas before I could ever develop to a point that I could lead others. 

“Challenges Make the Strong Stronger and the Weak Weaker”

Therefore Choose to Be Strong! In whatever profession you are in your ultimate goal is to take on the role and move into the position of leadership. However, many people mistake management for leadership and that is a deadly mistake if you are in the “Team Building Business” which is one of the highest paid professions in the world.  They say if you are a leader and no one is following you then you are simply taking a walk. The true role of leadership is anything but glamorous but in fact one that is of service.  Leadership is many times a very lonely road.  While others are home resting you are up working late into the night and early morning to help and be a service to people.  It is a role that is undervalued and underappreciated.  Most of the time you are the first one to a meeting (setting everything up) and the last one to leave (cleaning everything up).

The crowds enjoy all the value you bring and the service you provide and after the party is over they zoom out with their presents without saying thank you.  This however is a very small price and sacrifice in comparison to knowing that as a true Leader you are changing lives and creating destinies for good people.  And just to put the icing on the cake, it pays so well in income that you will live like a King or Queen with Financial Freedom!  Use your business to “build people” don’t use “people to build your business”!

“It Feels Good to Own Gold”

Don and Melinda Boyer

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”

“Intention of the Heart”

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Be too big for Gossip.  As a high caliber Professional never allow yourself to give gossip or be part of gossip or spread gossip.  You are to high quality of a person to allow yourself to stoop to that type of low caliber behavior. Donald Trump has a policy in his company that he says is one of the main reasons why his company is so successful which is “Never Do Business With Any One You Do Not Trust”Trust is an attribute that is more valuable than all the diamonds in the world.  Trust unlike precious diamonds cannot be purchased.

As humans we often make mistakes and we will continue to make mistakes as long as we are on this earth.  And the fact is the more you accomplish, the more you succeed, the more wealth you create the more mistakes you will make.  Greatness is paved with the road of mistakes.  Mistakes do not make you untrustworthy.  If your company goes bankrupt that does not mean you are dishonest and cannot be trusted.

Trust is not a product of a perfect life that never makes mistake, Trust is a byproduct of the “Intention of the Heart”A person who cannot be trusted is a person who has a wicked heart full of evil intention to do harm to people on purpose.  Once you intentionally do evil to someone from the corruption of the heart you will never be trusted again and that is a very sad thing that will mar your career and future.

Mistakes can be forgiven, status can be restored but broken trust creates an irreparable breach in relationships.  Yes broken trust can be forgiven but trust can never truly be restored.  Be very careful that you do not get marked or marred as one who cannot be trusted.  You can lie about people and say that they cannot be trusted but in time that person’s integrity will rise to the surface and it will be known that those were false accusations.  On the other hand no matter how much you try to hide or cover up a corrupt heart that cannot be trusted, that too will soon surface for all to see.

In everything you do keep a high standard…you are a true Professional!

As much as I would like to personally sit down with you and chat about your goals and dreams over a fresh Latte I know that is impossible due to time and distance. However, let me do the next best thing, I will ship you a gourmet Latte along with a questionnaire about your business goals and dreams and you can send that back to me and I will respond with some ideas.  Just send me your shipping address and I will get you the gourmet coffee and questionnaire right out to you.

Don and Melinda Boyer 

  “Our mission is to educate you about the importance of owning Gold Bullion so that you can make an intelligent decision about your financial future”